#524 - Retirement Plan Live: Mature Marriage - Managing Joint Cash Flow with Separate Assets 

How do you manage a joint cash flow with separate assets? In addition to discussing Mark and Mary’s situation, today I chat with Kay about how she and her husband handled finances with their late in life marriage.

Kay gives us some insight on how to manage finances in a financially unbalanced relationship. You’ll appreciate her perspective on how to manage the household cash flow when you haven’t always been married.

Make sure to stick around to hear an update from Sam, our single Retirement Plan Live case study from 2018. She’ll let us know how she’s been doing, what has surprised her about retirement, and whether her retirement plan has changed. 

Kay’s perspective on joint cash flow with separate assets

When you get married later in life you may try to join your finances or keep them separate. There is no one right way to do things. 

Kay and her husband tried many different ways of separating and combining their finances over the years. What she has noticed is that as long as they are still working on managing their assets together with little conversations, they are moving towards their goals together. 

How do you manage your cash flow with separate assets?

OUTLINE OF THIS EPISODE OF THE RETIREMENT ANSWER MAN

RETIREMENT PLAN LIVE

  • [6:40] A comment about this RPL

  • [8:12] How to discuss uncomfortable topics with your partner

  • [13:56] Some examples of how separate assets can work

  • [19:03] Chatting with Kay about her relationship and prenup

  • [25:14] How they managed cash flow after they married

  • [31:40] How they navigated the financial challenges in their marriage

CATCHING UP WITH SAM FROM THE 2018 RETIREMENT PLAN LIVE

  • [34:18] What Sam has been up to since we last chatted

  • [38:01] How she has dealt with the ups and downs of the markets

  • [42:26] Does her retirement plan look the same?

  • [44:41] What has surprised her about retirement

TODAY’S SMART SPRINT SEGMENT

  • [50:24] Think about how you will manage your cash flow in retirement

Resources Mentioned In This Episode

2018 Retirement Plan Live with Sam 219, 220, 221, 222, 223

Rock Retirement Club

Roger’s YouTube Channel - Roger That

BOOK - Rock Retirement  by Roger Whitney
Roger’s Retirement Learning Center